Over the past years of chatting to people on IMVU I have learned a few things and have some rules when chatting with me also. Of the years that I have chatted on IMVU which has been a lot I have seen so many changes with people, when I first started people wanted to be friends, nothing about how you look, if you wanted to date, and how different you act. That past has long gone, only a few people from the old days of IMVU still act that way. Now a-days people only care about looks, dating, acting "normal" and also lieing thats a big thing now, c'mon people tell the truth, if you have to lie about your age just so that you can talk to be people and not be weird then either your to old to be here or something is wrong with you and what is up with the little kids lieing about there age so they can be "older" that pisses my off to no end tell the truth damn it, does is make you feel cool or special that your talking to older people, I can understand if you messed up but you're going way to fast when you signed up. Ok I am not going to lie everything I say about myself is the truth, I don't need to lie cause I don't have to I'm not hiding anything. There is a very little percent of people on IMVU that dress and look how they do in real life, I choose to look like this because I WANT TO, I like to look different and be different, alot of people don't. A lot of other things I have noticed are most other people think because the way they dress is how others dress, have any of you people seen what’s in the catalog, there’s some weird shit in there. What is the deal with people and automatically thinking that if someone has a darker style there mean that's not even close to being true talk to the person even if he or she looks goth or whatever give it a chance and see what happens. Other things I have notice is many people immediately assume when they go into a chat with someone that looks like a creature, a demon or whatever else people think of they either say “freak�, “you look stupid�, “take that shit off� and "look human". People just leave without really getting to know the person and that is just a dumb reason and makes me mad talk to the person it's not going to hurt. Really I am nice, if you are nice to me, I’m nice to you. If you’re going to be a total jerk or just be a rude dumb shit then you have asked for it. I’m not into any religion, I’m Atheist, so don’t go on and saying “you should go back to church and believe�, well.....I don’t want to, or you say “your going to hell�, why does that immediately mean I’m going to hell just because I don’t believe(Horse shit). I don’t complain to others that they believe in something that’s there choice and this is mine to just leave me alone about that shit I hear it enough from my family, since I look like this does not mean I’m satanic its just my sense of style, you have yours and I have mine. Now for the RULES>.> Don’t ask me if im single look at my page, it’s not that hard. Don’t give me that crap that im hot, cute, or sexy looking I am not on imvu to please people in how I look. I do now realize that some of you people are a little wierder and actually do find me hot/cute/sexy looking thats you're thing so go with it, some of you people just say it do try and "date" me it's not going to work. If you ask me to see your strip cam or any other stupid sites like that and you don’t leave when I said no, well you have been warned. I like how I look DON'T FUCKING TELL ME TO CHANGE HOW I LOOK, that’s all I hear from people, either deal with what I am wearing or just leave I don’t want to hear you say anything about it. Don’t give me that dumbass gangster talk I cant understand what the hell you are saying, either type correctly, learn proper grammar or leave. Im not emo or gothic, I mean I my have some clothes in real life that are gothic but I just like how the clothes look, is it that hard to understand. don’t just all of the sudden say "sooo..." after a long silence, it means that your bored if your that bored leave its not going to hurt my feelings. Don’t ask me my ASL then just all of the sudden leave, are some of you people really only going to talk to others if there ASL is perfect for you then if that’s the case I have no pity to you and your just retarded. If there is a silence don’t say " oh not much of a talker are you". Well you didn’t say anything so don’t make it my damn fault that you’re also the silent one. Not a rule but if you don’t have anything to say that’s nice to say just leave I don’t care about it. Don’t judge me then I won’t judge you, in every chat I am in I always follow by a quote "treat others how you would like to be treated". Treat me like crap I will treat you like crap, treat me with respect I will treat you with respect. Don't add me as a friend if you're just going to brag to others that you have this many friends, so many people have added me and I have ignored them because they have 150+ friends, REALLY do you need that many to feel cool or important, how many of you people have alot of friends and talk to all of them, I bet that some of you talk to only 10 or so maybe 15 or 20 people max, I do understand that some people have alot of friends I'm ony talking about certain amount of people not everybody. Another thing that gets to me about friend requests is when peope add you out of no where, kind of annoying cause I like to get to know someone first before I add them as one of my friends, another thing you could do is message the person and asking them "Hey do you want to be friend's, lets chat sometime"-that to me is alot better then just friend requesting. Well I got all or most of the things I have been wanting to say I'll keep adding more from more experience I can find from chatting. Hopefully when or if people read this they will understand my meaning(s).