........After a while you learn the differance between holding a hand and chaining a soul. ......You learn that love does,nt mean leaning, And company does,nt mean security.......You begin to learn that kisses arent a contract, And presents arent promises......You begin to except your defeats with your head held high and your eyes wide open, with the grace of a woman not the grace of a child.....After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get to much....you learn to build your roads on today because tomorrows ground is too uncertain for plans,and futures have away of falling down in midflight. ....So you plant your garden and decorate your soul instaed of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.........And you learn that you really can endure, That you really have worth, And you learn and learn and learn...With every goodbye YOU LEARN.